The Rumfish Grille is a Hit

If you happen to live in the South Hills of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and enjoy good food in an interesting atmosphere, you'll enjoy the new Rumfish Grille. Located in the Great Southern Shopping Center in the suburb of Bridgeville, it is a real find.  My wife and I ate there on a recent Thursday night after receiving a coupon in the mail for $10 off two entrees. Tucked in the corner of the rather nondescript shopping center, home to TJ Maxx and LA Fitness, among other tenants, it has a casual decor that is quite inviting, especially the large open patio, which suggests that you are in Southern Florida or Southern California.

We requested seating outside and were pleasantly surprised by the rather large waterfall and expansive view of the surrounding hills. The menu (as suggested by the name) is dominated by fresh seafood. There is a raw bar serving up succulent oysters as well as a varied array of fish and a few meat choices. My wife and I started off with the mussels in white wine sauce. They were large, plump and very tasty. The broth was garlicky but not overly so.  It was served with one crouton and a plate of caraway seed rye bread, both quite good.

The entrees give you a choice of fish dishes as well as side dishes and sauces. You create your own entrée, picking the combination of fish, starch, vegetable and sauces that you prefer. I had the rainbow trout with mashed  potatoes and grilled corn. The trout was perfectly grilled as was the corn on the cob. The mashed potatoes were fresh and lumpy, just the way I like them. I ordered the rum sauce, which was quite spicy and I ended up using it very sparingly.

My wife had the Ono fish, which was quite meaty but a bit overdone. It was full of flavor when I sampled a small piece.

We both had desserts.  I had the chocolate mousse cake with toasted coconut flakes. It was very dense and moist, almost fudge-like.  Quite good. My wife tried the mixed berries in cream sauce. The berries were fresh and the sauce was somewhere between a whipped cream and zabaglione sauce. Also quite good.

We were pleasantly surprised at the large crowd of people on this Thursday night. The parking lot was full and we were told by one of the adjacent store owners that it is busy every night and particularly so on the weekend and during Steelers football games.

The staff seems well-versed in the menu and is generally unobtrusive, something of a rarity these days in restaurants.

The Rumfish Grille is open daily, including Sunday for brunch. It is located at 1155 Washington Pike, Bridgeville, PA 15017 in the Great Southern Shopping Center. The phone number is 412-914-8013.

Give it a try and let me know what you think.

Interval Training and Weight Loss

As everyone who reads this blog knows, when it comes to the subject of exercise, I am a strong advocate of interval training.http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2013/07/how-to-use-interval-training-in-office.html; http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2013/04/high-intensity-interval-training.html; http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2013/03/the-many-benefits-of-interval-training.html; http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2013/07/interval-walking-to-lose-weight.html.

Several recent scientific studies have confirmed the hypothesis that short intense periods of exercise may have a greater impact on weight loss than longer periods of exercise. Both studies suggest that the short periods of exercise appear to dampen the desire to eat as much food as do longer periods of exercise. One study was conducted by researchers at the University of Western Australia in Perth, Australia and was published online in the June issue of The International Journal of Obesity.http://www.nature.com/ijo/journal/vaop/ncurrent/full/ijo2013102a.html. The other study was conducted by the University of Copenhagen and it too confirmed that interval training seemed to have the same weight loss effect. See New York Times, "For Weight Loss, Less Exercise May Be More." September 19, 2012.

Who Says Baby Boomers Want to Downsize?

It is a common place misconception that boomers want to downsize their lifestyles, especially by moving into smaller houses. The reality is quite different. As explained in a recent article in the CanadianFinancial Post,most boomers are actually moving into condos that are almost the same size as their prior residences.  While the survey was conducted in Canada, I think the same trend is taking place in the U.S..http://business.financial-post.com/2013/09/11/national-household-survey-boomers-in-no-rush-to-sell-homes-embrace-condo-living/

What Would Warren Buffett Do? Part I

What would Warren Buffett do? (WWWBD) This is a question any investor worth his or her salt should ask himself or herself regularly. I will try to answer that question in a series of posts using his own words.

.Invest In Index Funds

Index funds are mutual funds that mimic a specific benchmark.  The most well known of these are the funds that hold stocks in the Standard and Poor's 500. Index funds were developed by the founder of the Vanguard Group and Buffett's fellow octogenarian, John Bogle. The best known of the index funds is the Vanguard 500 Index Fund.  Here is what Buffett had to say about index funds in the 1996 Berkshire Hathaway annual report:

"Most investors, both institutional and individual, will find that the best way to own common stocks is through an index fund that charges low fees."

Why does Buffett favor index funds?  Again, from the 1996 annual report, he states:

"Those following this path are sure to best the net result (after fees and expense) delivered by the great majority of investment professionals.  Seriously, costs matter"


The Vanguard 500  Index Fund, for example, charges  0.17%  in fees and might represent a good choice for some people seeking low fees.


John Bogle puts another gloss on the use of index funds. In an interview at www.Bankrate.com, Bogle suggests that investors begin with a heavy emphasis on growth index funds and that a transition to bond index funds take place as you near or are in retirement in order to generate income.

(The writer of this blog owns shares in the Vanguard Index 500 and other Vanguard funds, including index funds).

5 Ways to Get the Best Price at a Flea Market

Are you afraid to negotiate? Do you watch with envy those TV shows where the participants negotiate at flea markets and get the best price on the item they wish to buy? Well, that can be you if you follow a few easy tips.

What is it that those flea market purchasers can do that is different from what you are able to do? Let me suggest that the key is preparation and knowledge. When they go to a flea market, they bring with them knowledge of what they want and how they can go about getting it for the best possible price. In other words, they come prepared to buy what they know. They know the value of the items they are seeking and if they do not know it already, they will check it out on their iPad or smart phone. You can do the same in any negotiation. But you must prepare.

1.  Lesson Number 1 is "Be Prepared".

Let's assume you see the item you are looking for, such as an antique chair.  It is priced, however, way above your budget. How can you get it down to a  price that you can afford? Once you have information concerning comparable items (see Lesson No. 1), you must not make it clear to the seller that you are too interested in the item. In fact, you might even walk away to demonstrate how little you are interested

2. Lesson Number 2 is "Be a Bluffer".

Many people assume that you should always open the discussion on price with a low ball offer. Sometimes that can be a good strategy, particularly if the item is grossly overpriced. Let's assume it is overpriced but not grossly overpriced, what should you do?  This is where you begin to admire the object. You tell the seller, what a wonderful piece it is, but you think the price is too high. 

3. Lesson Number 3 is "Admire the Item."

Here is where it becomes difficult for a lot of people. However, there is a simple solution: Let the seller lower the price.  If you have followed the above three steps, you have essentially softened the seller by initially walking away and then returning to show your admiration for the item, but making it clear that it is too pricey for your pocketbook.  If the seller is anxious to make a sale (and who isn't), you may be surprised how quickly the seller will drop the price---and sometimes, dramatically, particularly if you return at the end of the day.

4. Lesson Number 4 is "Let the Seller Make the First Offer."

At this point, you should be prepared to make your best offer based upon your knowledge.  Make it clear that it is your best offer and that you are prepared to buy the item right then. The seller will undoubtedly come back with what he says is his best offer. This is where you agree to "split the difference" and the item is yours.

5. Lesson Number 5 is "Split the Difference".

Will this approach always work?  Probably not, but in a substantial number of instances it will. "Try it, you'll like it."

For more information on negotiating the best deal in all situations, click on my name below.

Tony Basinski

3 Simple Ways to Meditate and Improve Your LIfe

I have written several times about the many benefits of mindfulness or meditation. http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2013/03/understanding-mindfulness.html; http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2012/11/what-is-mindfulness.html; http://notjustforboomers.blogspot.com/2012/12/sherlock-holmes-and-mindfulness.html.  Here are three simple ways to incorporate mindfulness in your daily life:

1. When you awaken in the morning, while still in bed, concentrate on your breathing.  Start with a minute or two and then build slowly from there to 5 to 10 minutes.  It will clear your head and put you in a good mood the whole day.

2. When driving your usual commute to work, concentrate on one word or sound when you begin to feel frustrated with the traffic tie-ups and crazy drivers around you. I use the word "ten" and just keep repeating it until I feel relaxed.

3. Finally, at night when you are in bed, use the 4-7-8 breathing method three or four times. That's where you breathe in for a count of 4, hold the breath for a count of 7 and exhale for a count of 8. I predict you will be asleep even before you finish the last count.

5 Things to Consider when Picking a Cruise

Interested in a cruise this fall or winter?  Lots of people will be cruising to Alaska, the Carribean and even the rivers of Europe.  So, what should you look for in a cruise.  Here are some thoughts based on a  number of cruises we have taken on several different cruise lines:

1. Get the best price by waiting. Cruise lines are always looking to fill up their ships. If you have the freedom to wait to the last minute to book your cruise, you will probably save the most money. On one of our cruises, a Canadian couple paid $98 per person for a three day Caribbean cruise which they booked at the last minute.

2. Look for open seating for your meals.  While it can be interesting to sit with the same people every day of the cruise, why not sit with different people instead. It will make the cruise more enjoyable (particularly if the people you are stuck with are boring or bores).

3. Try to book a stateroom midship. You want to be close to the stairs and elevators (of course, not right next to them) because you will be moving from deck to deck all day and you will avoid unnecessary walking.

4. Stake out your chair at the pool early in the day. Most deck chairs fill up fast, so get there early.

5. Consider booking your own excursions. The ship excursions are usually fairly pricey. You may be surprised how much you can save if you do an internet search on your destination and find a guide who will basically do the same thing as the ship's provider. We did this on a cruise to Ephesus in Turkey and we had a terrific guide, who showed us much more than we would have seen with the ship's guide.  Shop around!

I hope these tips are helpful.  Let me know what you think. Bon Voyage!